Monologue or Dialogue ?

If we try to bully people into agreeing that their right was wrong and that they have been serving the devil. They may be made to fear God’s punishment and this may lead them to accept the message. However are they accepting it becasue their conscience convicts them or becasue we have forced them into it ? we tell them what they are guilty of. We tell them they ought to feel guilty and we may succeed in making them feel guilty [A.C. Krass]. But is that the way of truth and life, lets look at what Taylor said:

“A christ who releases me from guilt that has been induced, and forgives sins of which the Church but not my conscience has accused me, will not be the saviour of my world. The ture Christ of the Gospels works more fundamentaly. Starting with the question, what wilt thou that i should do unto there ? He is prepared to be present to the other man with an infinite patience until he himself recognizes and points out the shape of evil in his own world”